How to Catch a Cheating Spouse
Do you think that your spouse is cheating? The first thing you need to do is to find out if you really have a cheating spouse or not. It is vital that you determine the truth, and that this truth is backed up by hard and solid evidence.
This is the only time you can ever confront your partner. Doing so before you have proof can either result in one of two things.
First, you may never really find out the truth since your cheating spouse will now be more careful in covering their tracks.
Second, if your partner is innocent, you would have wrongly accused them of being a cheating spouse and this will lead to more problems in an already strained relationship.
One can simply catch a cheating spouse by watching out for accidental slip ups.
Good as some people are in covering their tracks, when you are lying to your spouse often enough, there are bound to be some mistakes.
The thing is with lying—you have to create new lies to cover up the old ones, and the more lies you fabricate, the more difficult it is to keep track of them.
Sooner or later, it will become very difficult to tell the difference between the lies and the truth. Take advantage of this potential weakness.
When your partner is cheating, and you act like you don’t have a clue, there is a higher probability that they’ll let their guard down, therefore being more vulnerable to making mistakes.
How to catch a cheating spouse through common slip ups:
Calling you by another name
A cheating spouse will brush it off but don’t take this lightly. However, you don’t want to make it apparent that you have taken this as a clue—you need to get your proof first.
Instead, quietly take note of the other person’ s name and pay attention whenever your partner mentions them.
Listen particularly hard when your spouse has just come home from a night out with friends and the other person’s name pops up again.
Take note of the date and ask your partner where he went out with friends that and who those friends were—then write down the details in a notebook so you can look back at the information and cross check it with any new information you may get.
A cheating spouse will not remember ALL the lies they have told and you can use your notes to confirm whether or not your partner was lying.
Coming home with lipstick on his collar or the smell of women’s perfume
One way to catch a cheating spouse is, without accusing him, just tell him that there is lipstick on his collar and he smells like perfume.
Then watch carefully for his reaction. Take note of his expression—does he seem nervous or flustered?
Did he make up an excuse about how his co-worker accidentally bumped into him and that’s how the lipstick ended up on his collar?
Don’t fall for it too easily. Take note of the date and write down the details in your notebook.
You can actually use information like this in the future to put all the pieces together which may then help you know for sure if you have a cheating spouse or not.
Your wife is wearing jewelry you have never seen before
How to catch your cheating spouse in this case? Compliment your wife on how nice she look s with her new jewelry. Ask her where she got it. Then touch the jewelry and play with it.
Pay close attention to her reaction—a cheating spouse may start to show signs of nervousness.
Make a mental note of this and write it down later. When you have a chance, take a good look at the jewelry to check for any engraving.
Arriving at home without the wedding ring
Comment that you noticed they’re not wearing the ring. A cheating spouse will make up an excuse about forgetting to put it back on after taking it off to wash their hands while at work.
Keep track of the date. Then, from now on, take note of how many times your partner ‘forgets’ to wear the wedding ring.
These are just a few ways on how to catch a cheating spouse through the slip ups they may make.