How your cheating spouse is keeping in touch
Just like an affair cannot exist without money and a paper trail that goes with it (like purchase receipts, credit card statements, bank statements and the like) communication is also quite necessary in maintaining a relationship—more so an illicit one as it is presumed both parties need to communicate in order to plan just how, where and when they can see each other again.
Just how is your cheating spouse keeping in touch with his lover?
Today’s advances in technology offer many ways for a cheating spouse to keep in touch with the other person.
Put an end to lies and deceit!
The easiest most obvious way for a cheating spouse to keep in touch with their lover would be a cell phone. Aside from text messaging and phone calls, we may also access and send email messages from our cell phone.
It’s the one device we keep with us at all times, whether we are at work or at home. Pay attention to your partner’s cell phone habits. Is he all of a sudden receiving text messages at night and can’t seem to help but answer these messages?
Does he pull away from you when he is on his cell phone, seeming as though he does not want you to see the messages? Has he ever received a text message at home and then says he has to leave a few minutes later and can’t seem to give you a good reason why?
The computer would be another means to communicate with a lover in private. There’s email and instant messaging that makes it very easy for a cheating spouse to keep in touch with this other person.
If you suspect your partner is emailing or chatting with his lover, you may surprise him by bringing in a cup of coffee while he is on his computer. Then sit on his lap and give him a hug—watch for his reaction. Did he get nervous and begin fumbling with this keyboard?
The telephone is another way for a cheating spouse to be in touch with his lover. Are you receiving some prank calls where the caller just hangs up as soon as you answer?
Let your partner know that this is bothering you and you plan to have the number checked. See if he panics and tries to convince not to do this.
Observe if the prank calls stop—if so, your spouse has obviously warned your lover not call your home anymore.
Put an end to lies and deceit!
Does your partner have a beeper? If so, observe them when they receive messages. Do they leave the room just to read the incoming messages?
Do they leave the house soon after getting a message? If you answered yes to any of these questions, it is quite possible that your partner is trying to hide something from you.
What is your instinct telling you?
Take a closer look at the information above about how a cheating spouse is keeping in touch with their lover. Try to think back and recall how your partner has been behaving recently.
Do any of the instances seem familiar? After reading this, do you feel your suspicions are being validated? If so, what are you going to do about it? For your own peace of mind and sanity, it is time to find out the truth.
Sometimes, it is scarier to face the unknown—but once you finally know the truth, painful as it may be, you will know how to move on with your life and be in control of your future.