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Sarah Paul
Author of How To Catch A Cheating Spouse

What Do You Do When You Have Cheating Proof?

Should you trust your partner once they have cheated on you once? Is it a case of "once a cheater, always a cheater"?

The question of whether "once a cheater, always a cheater" brings another question close to mind. This question is - if you were in business with a partner and you discovered your partner was stealing money from the company, would you ever trust him or her again?

That is what infidelity is like... And to continue a relationship once you have been betrayed relies on strength, love, and a leap of faith.

You see, all humans share a common quality. From Moscow to China, through the US and even South Africa, we all want to be loved exclusively. And cheating or infidelity, or whatever term we may use to describe adultery, attacks the very essence of what we desire exclusively.

Some experts claim that a couple can get past the problem after a case of cheating and build a relationship better than before it happened. Research findings and opinion polls identify that the likelihood of this happening is low, nevertheless it is still possible with hard work and commitment.

Other experts have come up with a stronger mantra which says - you can get past an extra-marital affair by your husband if both of you agree that an open and honest talk holds the key to a truce.

Again, critics have punctured holes in this school of thought.

The first hole is that the innocent party is not likely to get an honest account from the other party. If they told you exactly what was on their mind at each stage of the affair, it would end your relationship. How much truth do you need to know, and does knowing the absolute truth and all its gritty facts make the affair any easier to bear?

The second hole in this line of thought is that there is a problem with talk as a cure. So what kind of problem is this?

In such a talk, one person always has the most to gain. And in this case, the cheater has the upper hand. The cheater always has something to gain because all the unfaithful party has to do is what they were supposed to do in the first place - talk... and in many cases, edit the version of the truth to make it more palatable for the one listening.

And what does the aggrieved partner get in return? A lifetime of wondering. That's what they get from the talking. They will keep on wondering whether the adulterous partner wouldn't have strayed if they had been more responsive to his or her needs.

Talk keeps people engaged. And if your partner is the crafty type, they will let you do the talking. This way you lose the initiative and lower your demands, lower your expectations and lower your resistance.

Remaining together with a cheater sets up unpleasant situation, as it is filled with doubts and the need to have blind faith that the two of you will get through this. In some circumstances, the unfaithful husband often tries to level the field by accusing the wife of also having an affair.

Even if that doesn't happen, the cheating husband can accuse the wife each time of not forgiving him. So the issue then becomes- not who has cheated, but who failed to forgive. This way the tables are turned on the innocent spouse.

The issue of cheating in a marriage is a difficult one. So many people get caught up in finding the elusive piece of evidence that irrefutably proves an affair that they overlook what they are going to do when that moment happens. It pays to consider what your reaction is going to be and prepare for this, so if it happens your reaction is considered and constructive.

This is what will determine whether your marriage fails or survives.

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Sarah Paul
Author of How To Catch A Cheating Spouse

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