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Sarah Paul
Infidelity Affects Both SexesFrom time immemorial, women have always been seen as the weaker sex. So they have always been treated with kid gloves by society. In marriage and relationships, when the cookie crumbles, in many cases men are blamed for it, even if that may not be the truth. In divorce cases, men are the fall guys and are made to pay alimonies. Some deserve it, and some are victims of our justice system. But women are not always the saints that society is made to believe they are. And men aren't the only ones who betray their marriage vows. Women are gaining reputation when it comes to adultery. If you think it's just the rich and famous that stray when it comes to infidelity, then you are mistaken. That woman living next door or sitting at the next desk in the office not only may betray her marriage vows, but she may also feel comfortable enough to talk about it on talk shows like Jenny Jones, Jerry Springer or in magazine articles. However, we should hand it to women. They rarely cheat when they are in a fulfilled relationship. Statistics still point to men leading adultery figures. So, why does an otherwise faithful wife turn into an adulterous woman with an appetite for the forbidden? The case of the two women to be described shortly should be food for thought for men... The first woman said she was cheating on her husband because she needed more attention than he gave her. She said her husband's job required that he does a lot of traveling, but she had no problem with that because she could deal with the loneliness. But what she couldn't deal with was his lack of attention when he finally arrived home from his traveling. The second woman, whose marriage ended when her husband found out she was cheating, said she cheated for the same reason (lack of attention at home) and... wait for it... might do it again if her current husband stops being attentive. In the book "Midnight of Confessions: True Stories of Adultery", many women justified their extra marital affairs because they said something was lacking in their marriages - or more specifically - something was lacking in their relationships with their husbands. Rather than try to "fix" the relationship, they chose to find someone else to provide what they considered lacking in their husbands. Virtually everyday we see or read about women how say they are married but are fantasizing about someone else. Sometimes they are already involved with another person but feel guilty because they say they love their husbands. Some wives cheat because their husbands cheated on them first. They justify their actions because they wanted their husbands to feel the same pain of betrayal they felt. Others say they cheat too to show their husbands that they too can be desirable to other men. Susan Shapiro Barash, in her book "A Passion for More," tries to provide an insight into why women tread this ignominious path. She writes:
My opinion on this is that women who betray their marital vows do it because they are focused on the thrill of the moment and don't think about the long term effects of their actions. For the first time, women are involved in interpersonal relationships with men in all sectors of society, and one of the consequences of this increased interaction is the increased chance of infidelity occurring. It's a changing world out there!
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Sarah Paul
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